- Bertrand Russell
“I have sought love because in the union of love I have seen, in a mystic miniature, the prefiguring vision of the heaven the saints and poets have imagined.”
- Bertrand Russell
The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing.
The following excerpt is taken from "New Life Everyday:"
They call it the marshmallow test. Researchers at Stanford University ran a test in the 1960s. A researcher would say to four-year-olds: 'I am leaving for a few minutes to run an errand, and you can have this marshmallow while I am gone, but if you wait until I return, you can have two marshmallows.'
A dozen years later, the researchers restudied the same children and found that those who'd grabbed the single marshmallow tended to be more troubled as adolescents, and they scored an average of 210 points less on SATtests.
We teach our children to say their ABC's, to say please and thank you, their Bible verses, hymns, and how to tie their shoes and all these are great things. But never underestimate the value of instilling self-control and delayed gratification.
Self control and delayed gratification are often missing in our training. Usually we fail because we lean on our own power. Remember, self-control is a fruit of the spirit so if you truly seek to operate under the power of the Holy Spirit, self control will be evident in your life.
- Steve Arterburn
'What it lies in our power to do, it lies in our power not to do.' - Aristotle (384-322 B.C.)
"God renews our lives by renewing our minds, and he renews our minds through his truth. This truth is the Word of God."
- Warren Wiersbe
“The more we let God take us over, the more truly ourselves we become - because He made us. He invented us. He invented all the different people that you and I were intended to be. . .It is when I turn to Christ, when I give up myself to His personality, that I first begin to have a real personality of my own.”
- C.S. Lewis
As I do every other Tuesday, I attended the His Deal luncheon, with my good friend, George Toles. George has created so much impact in my life over the last 8 months that I cannot imagine my life without him. He's become a friend, a mentor, and a surrogate grandfather. He's incredible.
This said, there are some weeks where we have special guests, and this week was the same. When our guest shared his life and testimony with us, George brought out the following Leadership study and had us read through it. It had a profound effect on me and I loved it so much, I begged George to share it with me. Here is the study, presented in its original form, with only the one line highlighted (because that moment affect me so profoundly), so you are able to get some extra spiritual food this evening.
"I have been asked to reflect on my five years in the presidency at Eastern Baptist Theological Seminary, and to do so honestly, I need to begin with a confession. I was wrong.
I was wrong in my understanding and preconceived notions of leadership in Christian ministry. I was wrong in my expectations of others and myself. And I was wrong in my motivations, which may be the hardest thing to admit.
Five years ago, if you had asked me for a Scripture that epitomized the leadership ideal, I would likely have pointed you to Nathan’s directive to King David, “Whatever you have in mind, go ahead and do it, for the Lord is with you.” (2 Samuel 7:3)
Now I would point to a different verse. In speaking of Jesus’ incarnation, Paul tells us, “he made himself a man of no reputation, taking on the very nature of a servant.” (Phil 2:7) The verse does not say that Jesus became a man of bad reputation, or questionable reputation, but simply of ‘no’ reputation. That is, reputation, image, prestige, prominence, power, and other trappings of leadership were not only devalued, they were purposefully dismissed. Jesus became such a man. Not by default or accident, but by intention and design. And it was only in this form that he could serve, love, give, teach, and yes, lead.
I have come to believe that true Christian leadership is an ongoing, disciplined practice of becoming a person of no reputation, becoming more like Christ in this unique way. I will speak here to five areas where I have begun to learn what it is to be this sort of Christian leader.
#1. Anointed vs. Appointed
We have employed the business model of doing careful searches looking for Christian leaders whom we can appoint to office. Once in place, we then anoint them and ask God to bless their work.
God selects leaders in the opposite order. Samuel anointed David before appointing him King. Appointment without anointment always led to disaster.
Christian leadership requires nothing less than a complete, wholesale sell-out of your life in service to God and God only. It is the ‘losing of your life’ to the work God will do in you to benefit others.
There is a unique presence of God in the lives of those God anoints and calls to leadership through that anointing. Without it, we are continually thrown back upon ourselves to make things work.
God’s anointed will do anything God asks… anything. God’s anointed will seek God’s will with a passion. God’s anointed will love what God loves and hate what God hates. It also means hating sin in every form and coming against anything that stands between God’s loving plan and its accomplishment. God’s anointed are servants first, last and always. God’s anointed have only one passion, to know and do God’s will that He might have the glory. In this way, God’s anointed are people of no reputation.
#2. Fighting the Need to Increase
When John the Baptist saw Jesus, he made the declaration, “He must increase, but I must decrease.”
The way of the Christian leader is not the way of upward mobility in which our world has invested so much, but the way of downward mobility ending on the cross… It is not a leadership of power and control, but a leadership of powerlessness and humility in which the suffering servant of God, Jesus Christ, is made manifest.
Perhaps the hardest place to decrease is in the influence and the power we hold over people and decisions. By overestimating our own worth, we help our people depend on us for everything.
For the Christian leader this means that our self-confidence must be founded in our faith in Christ and our desire to be like Him in every way. We must be confident that "He who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it." (Philippians 1:6)
We will have no need to seek for increase in our positions of power. Our lives are hidden with Christ in God (Colossians 3:3) and therefore it is no longer we who live, but Christ who lives in us (Galatians 2:20).
Truly godly leaders seek no glory for themselves, but find great joy in seeing others prosper. They take no account of their reputation, but seek that Jesus’ face be seen in all they do.
#3. Being and Doing
God in his very nature is defined by relationship. Relationship is what defines us.
Jesus was concerned about people over product, relationship over output, and transformation over transaction. And from beginning to end, Jesus was a servant.
What is most important to God is not what we do but who we are. In Christian terms this means that the leader is transformed first! Before God can do a great work in an organization, that work must be done first in the heart of the leader.
Godly leaders undertake their work with a deep humility and a keen awareness of their own weaknesses and shortcomings. They know themselves well, seek accountability, pray fervently and watch carefully for red flags and warning signals.
The greatest tool for effective Christian leadership may be a mirror, and a group of friends to be sure you are looking into it with clarity and focus.
#4. Leadership is a Miracle
In "Leadership Prayers" by Richard Kriegbaum, he prays:
'I love you, God. You know I do. How natural it is to love you. You are perfect. You are beautiful, pure, powerful, absolutely truthful, and kind. You have been so generous to me that just saying thank you seems pitiful sometimes. But far more powerful in my life is knowing and feeling that you love me. You know exactly and completely who I am - all my ugly thoughts, my mangled motivations, my pretending, my irrational fears, my pride, and my unfaithfulness - and you still love me. I know you love me. You know me, and yet, because you love me, you let me lead others. I do not understand it, but I am grateful.'
When God uses any of us to lead effectively, it is nothing short of a miracle. Throughout history God looked to the least, the weakest, the outcast, the untalented, the sinful and the rejected to give great leadership at historic times. If we are honest as leaders, we know that we are not capable of leading as the size and complexity of our call demands. We know that there are others more talented, more prepared, more spiritual and more courageous than are we.
All that we bring will fall woefully short of what is required, and we will be ever thrown again into the grace and faithfulness of God to work the miracle of leadership in and through and even in spite of our small pile of skills and talents.
#5. Seeking the Right Applause
“It doesn’t matter if the world knows, or sees or understands, the only applause we are meant to seek is that of nail-scarred hands.”
Leaders are exposed to opportunities to generate applause. Our job is to never take the criticism too personally and not accept the praise too easily. Leaders do not inflict pain, they bear it. Leaders do not absorb praise, they re-direct it.
It is at that intersection between doing what God was telling us to do vs. doing the expedient and popular that true leadership takes place.
Before leading is about vision-casting or risk-taking or motivating others or building teams or communicating or strategic planning or public speaking, it is about lordship. Where Jesus is singularly and absolutely lord of our life, we will seek to be like him and him only. That will be our sole calling. We will be called to our work, and that work will carry God’s anointing.
We will be called to decrease that Christ may increase. We will be called to be people of God before and as we do the work of God. We will be called to pray and look for the miracle of leadership that God may work in our midst. And we will be called to strain our ears for that one sweet sound of two nail-scarred hands affirming all that we do in his name.
May we become leaders transformed into the likeness of Christ, leaders of no reputation."
- R. Scott Rodin
(R. Scott Rodin is the former president of Eastern Baptist Theological Seminary, Philadelphia. He now serves as president of Rodin Consulting of Spokane and part of the John R. Frank Consulting Group of Seattle)
'Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving"
- Colossians 3:23-24
"Please God, don’t move that mountain, but give me the strength to climb it. Supplement my will and empower me, because true wealth and success demand responsibility and ownership of my current situation. In order to lead, I must be the anchor to my family, my team, my friends, and my business."
I wrote this over a year ago and forgot it until this evening. I checked it on Google and was surprised I actually wrote it, and didn't quote it from someone else. That said, it speaks to me and I hope it speaks to you.
Just busy serving the community. Nothing fancy to see here.